{"id":112,"date":"2018-11-08T14:00:13","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=112"},"modified":"2018-11-08T14:00:54","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:00:54","slug":"5-conseils-pour-preparer-la-coparentalite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/5-conseils-pour-preparer-la-coparentalite\/","title":{"rendered":"5 conseils pour pr\u00e9parer la coparentalit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vous avez trouv\u00e9 le parent id\u00e9al, le couple id\u00e9al avec qui vous souhaitez avoir un enfant en coparentalit\u00e9 ? Prenez le temps avant de vous lancer dans cette superbe aventure.<\/p>\n

1. Prenez le temps de vous conna\u00eetre<\/h4>\n

Vous avez s\u00fbrement remarqu\u00e9 que dans la vie, lorsqu\u2019on rencontre quelqu\u2019un (que ce soit un coll\u00e8gue, ami ou un coup de foudre !) il faut un certain temps avant que les d\u00e9fauts se d\u00e9voilent\u2026
\nImaginez-vous fonder une famille<\/a> avec un coparent et d\u00e9couvrir au fil des ans une ribambelle de casseroles qui vous semblent abominables\u2026 Combien de fois vous \u00eates-vous dit : \u00ab Je n’aurais jamais cru \u00e7a de lui \/ ou d’elle \u00bb ?<\/p>\n

N\u2019h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 vous rencontrer de nombreuses fois, dans des circonstances toujours diff\u00e9rentes et pas forc\u00e9ment favorables : vous verrez les d\u00e9fauts de l\u2019autre appara\u00eetre plus rapidement, et ainsi savoir si vous \u00eates pr\u00eat \u00e0 les accepter chez un coparent.<\/p>\n

2. Anticiper les d\u00e9cisions futures<\/h4>\n

\u00c7a y est ? Vous \u00eates s\u00fbr que m\u00eame dans le pire des sc\u00e9narios, votre coparent est id\u00e9al pour vous ?<\/p>\n

Bien. \u00c0 pr\u00e9sent, vous devez penser \u00e0 construire l\u2019avenir de votre futur enfant :
\n– Qui le gardera et quand ?
\n– Quels seront les moments partag\u00e9s au sein d\u2019une coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 2, 3 ou 4 parents ?
\n– Financi\u00e8rement, qui g\u00e8re quoi ?
\n– Quel sera le nom de famille de l\u2019enfant ?
\n– Comment expliquerez-vous la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019enfant ?
\n– Si l\u2019un des coparents doit d\u00e9m\u00e9nager pour raison professionnelle, ou si sa situation change (s\u00e9paration s\u2019il est en couple et vice versa)
\n– Quelle place aura chacun des coparents aupr\u00e8s de l\u2019enfant ? Et si l\u2019un des coparents refait sa vie ?<\/p>\n

3. Soyez honn\u00eate !<\/h4>\n

Dans la vie, il y a de nombreuses situations o\u00f9 il vaut mieux arrondir les angles et se mettre en valeur, \u00e9viter de montrer ses d\u00e9fauts\u2026 Mais, la coparentalit\u00e9 vous engage \u00e0 vie aupr\u00e8s de l\u2019enfant et des autres coparents : on est toujours le p\u00e8re ou la m\u00e8re d\u2019un enfant.<\/p>\n

Soyez donc honn\u00eate sur la raison pour laquelle vous vous tournez vers la coparentalit\u00e9 :
\n– Je veux \u00e9lever mon enfant sans vivre en couple
\n– Je suis infertile et je souhaite une mani\u00e8re humaine de fonder une famille, loin des processus m\u00e9dicaux comme la FIV<\/a>
\n– Je suis homosexuel-le mais j\u2019ai un profond d\u00e9sir de parentalit\u00e9<\/p>\n

Votre coparent affrontera avec vous certaines difficult\u00e9s, et celles de votre ou vos enfants.<\/p>\n

4. Assurez-vous de la bonne sant\u00e9 du coparent<\/h4>\n

C\u2019est aussi une question d\u2019honn\u00eatet\u00e9 ! Certaines maladies peuvent directement impacter la grossesse ou la sant\u00e9 du coparent avec qui vous avez d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de faire un enfant : maladies sexuellement transmissibles, maladies h\u00e9r\u00e9ditaires\u2026 Tout ne se voit pas dans l\u2019apparence physique !
\nDiscutez donc de ce point d\u00e9licat et intime qu\u2019est la sant\u00e9, sans tabou.<\/p>\n

5. Si l\u2019enfant a v\u00e9ritablement deux lieux de vie<\/h4>\n

M\u00eame si cela est loin d\u2019\u00eatre \u00e9vident, les logements o\u00f9 l\u2019enfant grandira, ceux de ses coparents, doivent apporter un niveau de confort similaire. Si la diff\u00e9rence de d\u00e9coration ne peut \u00eatre que positive et enrichissante, il peut \u00eatre plus compliqu\u00e9 pour un enfant de g\u00e9rer une diff\u00e9rence de confort importante entre ses deux maisons.<\/p>\n

Faites-en sorte qu\u2019il trouve autant de plaisir et de faciliter \u00e0 s\u2019organiser chez l\u2019un que chez l\u2019autre ! Cela peut passer par le partage d\u2019un budget commun pour la r\u00e9alisation des chambres par exemple.<\/p>\n

Certains coparents homosexuels d\u00e9cident de vivre ensemble, \u00e0 l\u2019image d\u2019une colocation. Un mod\u00e8le suivi \u00e9galement par certains parents solos, qui voient l\u00e0 une belle fa\u00e7on de sociabiliser et d\u2019entourer leurs enfants au quotidien.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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