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1. L\u2019enfant au centre de la coparentalit\u00e9<\/h4>\n

La coparentalit\u00e9 implique un sch\u00e9ma familial hors des sentiers battus. Certains enfants ne grandissent qu\u2019avec 1 parent, d\u2019autres avec 2, 3 ou 4. Quoi qu\u2019il en soit, l\u2019enfant et ses parents biologiques ont des droits. Comment faire pour que l\u2019enfant trouve ses rep\u00e8res ?<\/p>\n

Avant de vous lancer dans ce beau projet qu\u2019est la coparentalit\u00e9, pensez \u00e0 ce que vos choix impliquent. D\u00e8s son plus jeune \u00e2ge, l\u2019enfant aura besoin de comprendre son sch\u00e9ma familial. Les coparents ont pour responsabilit\u00e9 de donner les rep\u00e8res \u00e0 l\u2019enfant pour qu\u2019il s\u2019\u00e9panouisse en toute simplicit\u00e9. La coparentalit\u00e9 doit rester un mode d\u2019\u00e9ducation simple, ne pas tomber dans le panneau de sa complexit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

2. Toutes les v\u00e9rit\u00e9s ne sont pas bonnes \u00e0 dire ?<\/h4>\n

C\u2019est une expression qui traverse l\u2019esprit des coparents face \u00e0 la complexit\u00e9 de leur situation familiale, la difficult\u00e9 d\u2019expliquer \u00e0 un enfant qui commence seulement \u00e0 parler, pourquoi il vit dans un sch\u00e9ma familial diff\u00e9rent du sch\u00e9ma traditionnel \u00ab 1 maman, 1 papa, 1 fr\u00e8re ou s\u0153ur \u00bb.<\/p>\n

La r\u00e9ussite de la coparentalit\u00e9 passe par la capacit\u00e9 des coparents \u00e0 \u00e9voquer le sujet et \u00e0 \u00e9duquer leur enfant avec positivisme. Chaque mode de vie poss\u00e8de ses avantages et inconv\u00e9nients. On est heureux que lorsqu\u2019on s\u2019appuie sur les points positifs, joviaux, qui permettent de b\u00e2tir un avenir serein. \u00c0 l\u2019inverse, plus les coparents diront \u00e0 leur enfant qu\u2019ils ont une vie compliqu\u00e9e, plus l\u2019enfant en ressentira la lourdeur. Or, il aura besoin d\u2019\u00e9nergie positive pour dire haut et fort \u00ab j\u2019ai 4 parents \u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0je n’ai pas de maman\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

3. Le dialogue essentiel<\/h4>\n

Quel que soit le type de famille<\/a> au sein de laquelle grandit un enfant, il pose de temps \u00e0 autre, des questions d\u00e9licates, au moment o\u00f9 l\u2019on s\u2019y attend le moins !<\/p>\n

Sachez toujours r\u00e9pondre avec honn\u00eatet\u00e9 et avec le sourire, \u00e0 toutes ces questions, y compris celles qui concernent la coparentalit\u00e9. Vos r\u00e9ponses seront d\u2019autant plus l\u00e9g\u00e8res qu\u2019elles seront spontan\u00e9es, \u00e0 condition que vous ayez identifi\u00e9 les choses trop compliqu\u00e9es \u00e0 comprendre ou \u00e0 entendre pour l\u2019enfant. Anticipez et sachez toujours ce que votre enfant a besoin d\u2019entendre pour \u00eatre heureux.<\/p>\n

4. Un message d\u2019amour avant tout<\/h4>\n

Quelle que soit la difficult\u00e9 qui vous a pouss\u00e9 vers la coparentalit\u00e9 (deuil, divorce, homosexualit\u00e9, infertilit\u00e9, d\u00e9sir d\u2019\u00e9lever un enfant dans un sch\u00e9ma familial moderne), c\u2019est avant tout l\u2019amour de votre futur enfant qui doit dicter vos d\u00e9cisions. Votre fa\u00e7on de vous tourner vers la coparentalit\u00e9 doit \u00eatre en accord avec la relation que vous souhaitez b\u00e2tir avec votre futur enfant, ses futurs parents.<\/p>\n

Tout au long de votre vie, c\u2019est en vous souvenant de l\u2019amour que vous avez \u00e9prouv\u00e9 pour cet enfant avant m\u00eame sa conception, que vous saurez parler, assumer et construire votre coparentalit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

5. Choisir un coparent qui comprenne votre fa\u00e7on d\u2019envisager la coparentalit\u00e9<\/h4>\n

\u00catre parent, c\u2019est pour la vie ! Vous devez pouvoir compter sur le ou les coparents avec qui vous souhaitez avoir un enfant. Les pensez-vous suffisamment s\u00fbrs d\u2019eux et conscients de tout ce qu\u2019engendre la coparentalit\u00e9 ? En effet, pour la tranquillit\u00e9 de l\u2019enfant, vous devrez avoir un mode de vie stable, \u00e9viter les conflits inh\u00e9rents \u00e0 la coparentalit\u00e9 (en plus des conflits habituels d\u2019un parent !).
\n\u00cates-vous bien d\u2019accord sur les rapports de l\u2019enfant avec son autre coparent : garder altern\u00e9e ou exclusive, contact occasionnel, r\u00e9gulier ou aucun contact ?<\/p>\n

Des d\u00e9cisions fondamentales et parfois dures \u00e0 tenir sur le long terme. L\u2019attachement \u00e0 l\u2019enfant est souvent sous-estim\u00e9, si bien que la distance d\u2019un coparent avec l\u2019enfant peut \u00eatre difficile \u00e0 vivre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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