{"id":133,"date":"2018-11-08T14:12:12","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:12:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=133"},"modified":"2018-11-08T14:12:12","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:12:12","slug":"la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/","title":{"rendered":"La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 : des parents normaux, mais en double !"},"content":{"rendered":"

L\u00e9ane, 2 papas et 2 mamans<\/h4>\n

\u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9cole, quand L\u00e9ane parle de ses parents avec ses camarades, elle est souvent oblig\u00e9e de pr\u00e9ciser de quel papa ou de quelle maman elle parle. Pour les enfants qui n\u2019ont jamais rencontr\u00e9 d\u2019enfant grandissant au sein d\u2019une coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4, il y a de quoi perdre le nord ! Si notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 commence \u00e0 s\u2019habituer au fait qu\u2019un couple homosexuel emm\u00e8ne son ou ses enfants \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole, il est moins courant de voir 4 parents ensemble\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00ab Papa & Dad \u2013 Maman & Mum \u00bb<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

D\u2019ailleurs, ils ne sont quasiment jamais \u00e0 4 parents \u00e0 partager le quotidien de l\u2019enfant, sauf pour des repas conviviaux comme l\u2019anniversaire des enfants. G\u00e9n\u00e9ralement, les coparents \u00e0 4 choisissent un mode de garde exclusif chez un couple, avec des s\u00e9jours r\u00e9guliers chez l\u2019autre couple. La vie de L\u00e9ane ressemble donc \u00e0 celle de n\u2019importe quel enfant de parents divorc\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Peut-on envisager la cohabitation \u00e0 4 coparents ?<\/h4>\n

Pourquoi pas ?<\/h5>\n

Le secret pour l\u2019\u00e9panouissement d\u2019une famille<\/a>, quelle que soit sa composition, est de cultiver le savoir vivre ! La difficult\u00e9 risque surtout de toucher les relations entre les 2 couples. Pour \u00e9viter les conflits et conserver une vie de couple \u00e9panouie, mieux vaut avoir choisi un logement ad\u00e9quat.<\/p>\n

Certaines colocations entre coparents se d\u00e9roulent dans de tr\u00e8s grands logements, avec quasiment 2 logements en 1. Le confort est alors imbattable, puisque chaque couple trouve son intimit\u00e9, la salle de bain est toujours libre, les enfants voient tous leurs parents tous les jours. Autre avantage non n\u00e9gligeable de la cohabitation \u00e0 4 coparents : l\u2019\u00e9conomie. Le loyer ou l\u2019achat du bien devrait toujours revenir moins cher, et vous n\u2019avez pas d\u2019allers-retours \u00e0 faire pour que les enfants voient chacun de leurs parents\u2026 C\u2019est aussi, un gain de temps !<\/p>\n

Les pi\u00e8ges de la cohabitation \u00e0 4 coparents<\/h5>\n

Finalement, ils sont les m\u00eames que pour des colocataires. Mais, on ne peut pas nier l\u2019importance de ce qui unit les 4 coparents, \u00e0 savoir l\u2019enfant. Vous imaginez bien que plus les parents sont nombreux \u00e0 tenter de r\u00e9soudre un probl\u00e8me d\u2019\u00e9ducation, plus les d\u00e9saccords et les tensions menacent !<\/p>\n

Petit \u00e0 petit, vous trouverez vos rep\u00e8res. Qui est plus efficace pour r\u00e9soudre tel souci avec l\u2019enfant ? Cela demande donc de vouer une grande confiance \u00e0 votre conjoint, et au second couple qui vit avec vous.<\/p>\n

Pour limiter les risques, pensez \u00e0 \u00e9tablir un bail pour chaque couple. Ce n\u2019est pas parce que vous \u00e9levez le m\u00eame enfant que vos 2 couples parviendront \u00e0 cohabiter !<\/p>\n

La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 bien g\u00e9r\u00e9e, c\u2019est un enfant 2x plus entour\u00e9<\/h4>\n

Le gros avantage de la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 est effectivement de permettre \u00e0 l\u2019enfant d\u2019avoir plus de chances d\u2019avoir toujours un parent sur qui compter. Cela peut notamment permettre \u00e0 un couple de se retrouver en t\u00eate \u00e0 t\u00eate pendant que l\u2019autre s\u2019occupe de l\u2019enfant. \u00c0 tour de r\u00f4le, chaque couple peut reposer l\u2019un.<\/p>\n

Pensez \u00e0 l\u2019avenir de votre enfant. Avoir 4 parents pr\u00e8s de lui, m\u00eame s\u2019ils ne cohabitent pas, c\u2019est avoir 4 opportunit\u00e9s de demander conseil ! Chaque parent apporte des choses diff\u00e9rentes, les enfants de coparents ont la chance de b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier de l\u2019exp\u00e9rience de 4 personnes.<\/p>\n

L\u00e9galement, qui sont les parents ?<\/h4>\n

Le Papa et la Maman de L\u00e9ane, qui l\u2019ont con\u00e7ue, ont tous les deux des droits, en tant que parents. Le p\u00e8re a reconnu l\u2019enfant \u00e0 sa naissance. Dans leur cas, Dad et Mum sont donc les beaux-parents, qui poss\u00e8dent tr\u00e8s peu de droits, mais qui peuvent en avoir\u2026 En effet, la loi n\u00b0 2002-305 du 4 mars 2002 stipule que l\u2019autorit\u00e9 parentale peut \u00eatre d\u00e9l\u00e9gu\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

Autrement dit, si vous \u00eates dans le cas d\u2019une coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 avec une garde exclusive de l\u2019enfant par l\u2019un des 2 couples, le beau-parent concern\u00e9 peut obtenir l\u2019autorit\u00e9 parentale, et m\u00eame se voir confier l\u2019enfant sur d\u00e9cision judiciaire.<\/p>\n

La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 tend \u00e0 apporter de plus en plus de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 aux coparents.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

L\u00e9ane, 2 papas et 2 mamans \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9cole, quand L\u00e9ane parle de ses parents avec ses camarades, elle est souvent<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":134,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2,6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nLa coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 : des parents normaux, mais en double ! - Blog CoparentaLys<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 : des parents normaux, mais en double ! - Blog CoparentaLys\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"L\u00e9ane, 2 papas et 2 mamans \u00c0 l\u2019\u00e9cole, quand L\u00e9ane parle de ses parents avec ses camarades, elle est souvent\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Blog CoparentaLys\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/coparentalite\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2018-11-08T13:12:12+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/La-coparentalite-a-4.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"450\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"300\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"admincoparentalys\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@CoParentaLys\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@CoParentaLys\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"\u00c9crit par\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"admincoparentalys\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Dur\u00e9e de lecture estim\u00e9e\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"admincoparentalys\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/f5874233a536c2135c8d801b4a13c9ca\"},\"headline\":\"La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 : des parents normaux, mais en double !\",\"datePublished\":\"2018-11-08T13:12:12+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2018-11-08T13:12:12+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\"},\"wordCount\":696,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/#organization\"},\"articleSection\":[\"Coparentalit\u00e9\",\"Homoparentalit\u00e9\"],\"inLanguage\":\"fr-FR\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-a-4-des-parents-normaux-mais-en-double\/\",\"name\":\"La coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 4 : des parents normaux, mais en double ! 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