{"id":136,"date":"2018-11-08T14:16:59","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:16:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=136"},"modified":"2018-11-08T14:16:59","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:16:59","slug":"etre-coparent-a-distance-et-heureux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/etre-coparent-a-distance-et-heureux\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00catre coparent \u00e0 distance et heureux !"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Comme souvent, on retrouve des similarit\u00e9s entre les difficult\u00e9s rencontr\u00e9es par les coparents et celles que connaissent les parents divorc\u00e9s. La distance g\u00e9ographique fait partie de ces obstacles. Comment \u00eatre coparent \u00e0 distance tout en permettant l\u2019\u00e9panouissement de la <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2023\/06\/30\/la-famille-traditionnelle-toujours-desirable\/\">famille<\/a> ?<\/p>\n<h4>L\u2019organisation des coparents \u00e9loign\u00e9s<\/h4>\n<p>En optant pour la garde principale chez un couple, et les vacances chez l\u2019autre, on autorise \u00e0 chacun de cr\u00e9er et entretenir des relations. Il peut \u00eatre envisageable, de proc\u00e9der par roulement, si l\u2019enfant vit parfaitement bien le fait d\u2019\u00eatre parfois chez un couple, parfois chez l\u2019autre. Par exemple, le couple A peut avoir la garde principale une ann\u00e9e, et inversement l\u2019ann\u00e9e suivante. Ce fonctionnement permet \u00e0 chaque parent d\u2019accompagner l\u2019enfant aussi bien en p\u00e9riode scolaire que pendant les vacances.<\/p>\n<p>Pendant les p\u00e9riodes o\u00f9 les coparents ne voient pas l\u2019enfant, il est important de garder le contact ! Les moyens de communication modernes le permettent de mani\u00e8re id\u00e9ale, gr\u00e2ce aux appels vid\u00e9o.<\/p>\n<p>Le profil id\u00e9al pour la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 distance<\/p>\n<p>Chacun peut s\u2019adapter \u00e0 la distance\u2026 ou pas. Nous sommes tous in\u00e9gaux face \u00e0 certaines difficult\u00e9s, surtout lorsqu\u2019il s\u2019agit de vivre loin de ses enfants. Il va de soi que certains coparents vivront la situation mieux que d\u2019autres !<\/p>\n<h5>Les couples qui ne peuvent pas se passer des t\u00eates \u00e0 t\u00eates<\/h5>\n<p>Si votre vie de couple rime avec complicit\u00e9, moments \u00e0 2 et rien qu\u2019\u00e0 2, vous envisagerez la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 distance avec plus de l\u00e9g\u00e8ret\u00e9. Si ce n\u2019est pas votre cas, alors c\u2019est peut-\u00eatre le moment de vivre une relation de couple plus fusionnelle.<\/p>\n<p>Certains couples ont ceci dit un besoin fondamental de libert\u00e9, d\u2019ind\u00e9pendance. Leur \u00e9panouissement par les activit\u00e9s qu\u2019ils r\u00e9alisent chacun de leur c\u00f4t\u00e9. Or l\u2019\u00e9panouissement est sans doute l\u2019\u00e9l\u00e9ment crucial \u00e0 pr\u00e9server lors e la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 distance.<\/p>\n<h5>Les coparents qui m\u00e8nent des vies actives et \u00e9panouies<\/h5>\n<p>Vous ne quittez pas votre lieu de travail avant 20h ? Vos soir\u00e9es sont partag\u00e9es entre s\u00e9ances de sport, cin\u00e9 et autres loisirs sans parler de vos week-ends ? Cela peut vous aider \u00e0 vivre loin de vos enfants. Attention toutefois \u00e0 ne pas \u00eatre dans le d\u00e9ni d\u2019un manque relationnel qui vous ferait trop souffrir. Parfois, l\u2019hyperactivit\u00e9 se met en place pour oublier le chagrin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>La cl\u00e9 d\u2019une coparentalit\u00e9 heureuse, m\u00eame \u00e0 distance, c\u2019est sans aucun doute de vivre les choses avec bonheur. S\u2019il est triste de ne pas voir son enfant souvent, souvenez-vous qu\u2019il est magique d\u2019\u00eatre parent. Cette relation unique, ce lien ind\u00e9fectible, doit vous permettre de toujours garder le moral !<\/p>\n<h4>Vivez des moments constructifs<\/h4>\n<p>Vous accueillez votre enfant tous les 6 semaines en moyenne, pour les vacances. C\u2019est \u00e7a la coparentalit\u00e9 \u00e0 distance, et c\u2019est aussi souvent \u00e7a, la coparentalit\u00e9 tout court.<\/p>\n<p>Chaque journ\u00e9e que vous passez avec votre enfant comportera son lot de difficult\u00e9s, de bonheurs. Sachez en tirer le meilleur, domptez votre enfant pour r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 entrer r\u00e9ellement en communication avec lui. Il doit ressortir grandi de son s\u00e9jour chez vous : comprendre pourquoi vous avez telle organisation, tels go\u00fbts\u2026 Laissez-le vous d\u00e9couvrir autant que vous devez \u00eatre curieux de ce qui se passe dans sa petite t\u00eate, de la fa\u00e7on dont il vit ses journ\u00e9es lorsque vous ne le voyez pas.<\/p>\n<h4>Instaurez des rituels<\/h4>\n<p>On dit souvent que les enfants souffrent d\u2019\u00eatre \u00e9cartel\u00e9s entre leurs parents lorsqu\u2019ils ne vivent pas ensemble. Qu\u2019ils vivent toujours avec une valise. Mais, lorsque la cohabitation se passe bien chez un couple comme chez l\u2019autre, l\u2019enfant peut \u00eatre tr\u00e8s content du changement ! Il peut trouver des plaisirs chez l\u2019un et d\u2019autres, chez l\u2019autre.<\/p>\n<h4>Pr\u00e9voir du repos pour vos enfants !<\/h4>\n<p>Vous n\u2019avez pas vu votre enfant depuis presque 2 mois, vous avez envie qu\u2019il passe des moments m\u00e9morables, qu\u2019il ait toujours envie de revenir vous voir. Oui, mais\u2026 attention \u00e0 ne pas trop en faire. Lorsqu\u2019on charge trop les journ\u00e9es d\u2019occupations, m\u00eame de sorties en parcs d\u2019attractions, on prend le risque d\u2019un enfant fatigu\u00e9. Et qui dit fatigue, dit tensions, soucis\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Pr\u00e9voyez donc du temps pour\u2026 ne rien faire avec votre enfant.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comme souvent, on retrouve des similarit\u00e9s entre les difficult\u00e9s rencontr\u00e9es par les coparents et celles que connaissent les parents divorc\u00e9s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":137,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.12 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>\u00catre coparent \u00e0 distance et heureux ! - Blog CoparentaLys<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/etre-coparent-a-distance-et-heureux\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00catre coparent \u00e0 distance et heureux ! 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