{"id":142,"date":"2018-11-08T14:18:54","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:18:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=142"},"modified":"2018-11-08T14:18:54","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:18:54","slug":"la-coparentalite-ou-comment-avoir-une-vie-de-couple-ideal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/la-coparentalite-ou-comment-avoir-une-vie-de-couple-ideal\/","title":{"rendered":"La coparentalit\u00e9, ou comment avoir une vie de couple id\u00e9al"},"content":{"rendered":"

Combien de couples d\u00e9chantent apr\u00e8s la naissance de leur enfant, pourtant tellement aim\u00e9… La naissance d\u2019un b\u00e9b\u00e9 ou l\u2019adoption d\u2019un enfant chamboule les rep\u00e8res des jeunes parents, au point que certains ne parviennent plus \u00e0 profiter pleinement de leur vie de couple. Finalement, \u00eatre coparent, n\u2019est-ce pas la possibilit\u00e9 de prendre du recul sur cet \u00e9v\u00e9nement bouleversant ? Un recul n\u00e9cessaire pour mieux pr\u00e9server la vie de couple ?<\/p>\n

Une fois les pr\u00e9jug\u00e9s exprim\u00e9s\u2026<\/h4>\n

Vous avez s\u00fbrement entendu des phrases choc \u00e0 propos de la coparentalit\u00e9, du genre \u00ab un enfant = un papa + une maman \u00bb. A la lecture du titre de cet article, certains pourraient d\u00e9j\u00e0 dire des phrases choc du genre \u00ab pourquoi faire un enfant si c\u2019est pour le d\u00e9laisser au profit de vote vie de couple ? \u00bb.
\nPr\u00e9cisons donc qu\u2019il s\u2019agit d\u2019un mode de vie, d\u2019un mode d\u2019\u00e9ducation et m\u00eame d\u2019une structure familiale organis\u00e9e dans le but de promouvoir une vie de famille<\/a> heureuse.<\/p>\n

Se retrouver comme au premier jour<\/h4>\n

Si l\u2019on prend l\u2019exemple d\u2019une garde partag\u00e9e ou l\u2019enfant va 1 semaine chez un couple, 1 semaine chez l\u2019autre, chaque couple passe donc une semaine sans enfant. Cela ne signifie pas pour autant que l\u2019enfant n\u2019existe plus : le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, les visites exceptionnelles ou les sorties avec la famille au complet maintiennent le lien et promettent l\u2019\u00e9panouissement de l\u2019enfant comme des parents.
\nPendant l\u2019absence de l\u2019enfant, les couples \u00e9prouvent certes, un manque \u00e9vident envers leur enfant mais savent aussi en profiter pour se retrouver comme au premier jour, sans le stress du \u00ab Est-ce que b\u00e9b\u00e9 dort bien? \u00bb , ou du \u00ab Est-ce que tu lui as donn\u00e9 son m\u00e9dicament ? \u00bb ou du \u00ab Et tes devoirs ? \u00bb. L\u2019occasion de reprendre les habitudes de couples, les sorties en amoureux mais aussi de refaire le plein d\u2019\u00e9nergie avant le retour de l\u2019enfant.<\/p>\n

100% parents tout le temps<\/h4>\n

L\u2019absence de l\u2019enfant pendant la p\u00e9riode o\u00f9 il vit chez l\u2019autre couple leur permet de se d\u00e9tacher des difficult\u00e9s rencontr\u00e9es lorsqu\u2019on \u00e9l\u00e8ve un enfant. La fatigue des nuits blanches, des changements de couches, l\u2019\u00e9ducation de l\u2019enfant pour qu\u2019il apprenne \u00e0 ne pas faire trop de b\u00eatises\u2026 Face \u00e0 tous ses soucis rencontr\u00e9s 24h\/24, quel parent n\u2019a pas un jour eu envie d\u2019appuyer sur \u00ab pause \u00bb?
\nLa coparentalit\u00e9 permet plus ou moins de le faire, sans pour autant oublier qu\u2019on est parent. Le temps d\u2019une ou deux semaines, le couple peut \u00e0 nouveau dormir normalement, reprendre ses loisirs, sortir avec leurs amis\u2026 Tout en restant parent, car on le reste en permanence et pour toujours, en termes de responsabilit\u00e9s, d\u2019affection, de projet de vie…. Le seul r\u00e9el souci, c\u2019est l\u2019absence de filiation entre le coparent et l\u2019enfant, non reconnu par le gouvernement et par la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral. Un probl\u00e8me que sans doute, le temps et les lois effaceront un jour, pour le bien-\u00eatre de l\u2019enfant et de sa famille.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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