{"id":154,"date":"2018-11-08T14:23:09","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=154"},"modified":"2018-11-14T10:59:34","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T09:59:34","slug":"comment-la-mere-porteuse-vit-elle-la-situation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/comment-la-mere-porteuse-vit-elle-la-situation\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment la m\u00e8re porteuse vit-elle la situation?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pour devenir parent lorsqu\u2019on n\u2019est pas un couple h\u00e9t\u00e9rosexuel ou lorsqu\u2019on souffre d\u2019infertilit\u00e9, de maladie, il existe des alternatives. La GPA (Gestation Pour Autrui)<\/a> en fait partie. Sujet plut\u00f4t tabou en France, sans doute du fait de son interdiction l\u00e9gale, la GPA soul\u00e8ve de nombreuses questions \u00e9thiques avant tout. Nous avons voulu nous pencher sur le v\u00e9cu des m\u00e8res porteuses. Comment vivent-elle la grossesse, la naissance puis le d\u00e9part du b\u00e9b\u00e9 ?<\/p>\n

Qui sont les m\u00e8res porteuses ?<\/h4>\n

Pour la plupart des femmes, devenir m\u00e8re fait partie d\u2019un projet familial, issu du d\u00e9sir de fonder sa propre famille<\/a> avec son conjoint. Les m\u00e8res porteuses quant \u00e0 elles, choisissent de porter un enfant, mais pas de l\u2019\u00e9lever.<\/p>\n

Avant tout, des m\u00e8res de famille<\/h4>\n

Dans les pays o\u00f9 la GPA est autoris\u00e9e, la m\u00e8re porteuse doit respecter certaines r\u00e8gles, comme : avoir d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu un enfant auparavant. Le processus de GPA est encadr\u00e9 par la loi.
\nLorsque l\u2019enfant na\u00eet, il n\u2019est pas rare que le ou les enfants de la m\u00e8re porteuse soient l\u00e0 pour le bercer. Finalement, le projet d\u2019une m\u00e8re porteuse est le projet de toute une famille, non pas d\u2019une jeune femme seule en qu\u00eate d\u2019argent comme le voudraient certains clich\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

L\u2019agent, une motivation secondaire<\/h4>\n

Les m\u00e8res porteuses ne sont pas motiv\u00e9es par l\u2019argent. En effet, si l\u2019on prend comme exemple les m\u00e8res porteuses des Etats-Unis, leur r\u00e9mun\u00e9ration est plut\u00f4t faible, surtout en comparaison \u00e0 un salaire fixe. Ce qui co\u00fbte cher \u00e0 la famille adoptive est plut\u00f4t l\u2019ensemble des d\u00e9marches de la GPA (adoption, hospitalisation de la m\u00e8re porteuse, traitements durant la grossesse\u2026). Le co\u00fbt de la m\u00e8re porteuse est estim\u00e9 \u00e0 1\/5\u00e8me du budget total. C\u2019est donc plus souvent une motivation altruiste qui am\u00e8ne les m\u00e8res porteuses \u00e0 se lancer dans un projet de GPA. Elles veulent aider des couples \u00e0 fonder leur propre famille. Une motivation li\u00e9e au bonheur qu\u2019ont connu ces femmes pendant leur(s) grossesse(s) pr\u00e9c\u00e9dente(s). Car pour certaines femmes, porter un enfant est tout simplement la plus belle p\u00e9riode de leur vie et elles sont heureuses de la revivre.<\/p>\n

La naissance, entre joie et tristesse<\/h4>\n

Porter un enfant, m\u00eame s\u2019il n\u2019est pas le sien \u00e0 proprement parler, cr\u00e9e un lien fort entre la m\u00e8re porteuse et le futur b\u00e9b\u00e9. 9 mois de d\u00e9vouement, de concessions, de r\u00e8gles alimentaires \u00e0 suivre, de rendez-vous m\u00e9dicaux et de traitements\u2026
\nCertaines m\u00e8res porteuses vivent la naissance de l\u2019enfant comme une joie intense : la naissance est toujours un moment exceptionnelle, et celle de voir des parents d\u00e9couvrir leur enfant aussi. Pour d\u2019autres m\u00e8res porteuses, le fait de voir l\u2019enfant partir avec d\u2019autres parents, m\u00eame s\u2019ils ont \u00e9tabli un rapport de confiance, des liens amicaux, est triste, \u00e9trange. Surtout en cas de baby blues sans doute !
\nChaque m\u00e8re porteuse vit donc la situation de mani\u00e8re diff\u00e9rente, m\u00eame si dans la plupart des cas, c\u2019est l\u2019envie d\u2019aider un couple qui d\u00e9clenche la motivation : la rencontre avec un couple en mal d\u2019enfant, \u00e0 qui la m\u00e8re porteuse veut donner ce bonheur unique d\u2019\u00eatre parent.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pour devenir parent lorsqu\u2019on n\u2019est pas un couple h\u00e9t\u00e9rosexuel ou lorsqu\u2019on souffre d\u2019infertilit\u00e9, de maladie, il existe des alternatives. 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