{"id":169,"date":"2018-11-08T14:30:53","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T13:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=169"},"modified":"2018-11-15T15:32:52","modified_gmt":"2018-11-15T14:32:52","slug":"elever-un-enfant-seul-un-choix","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/elever-un-enfant-seul-un-choix\/","title":{"rendered":"Elever un enfant seul : un choix"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Les m\u00e9dias ont toujours associ\u00e9 la <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2023\/06\/30\/la-famille-traditionnelle-toujours-desirable\/\">famille<\/a> monoparentale \u00e0 une m\u00e8re c\u00e9libataire, divorc\u00e9e ou abandonn\u00e9e par le p\u00e8re, voire m\u00eame \u00e0 une m\u00e8re fille. Pourtant, les familles monoparentales ne concernent pas que les femmes devenues m\u00e8res c\u00e9libataires par obligation. Aujourd\u2019hui, elles le font par choix, et les p\u00e8res c\u00e9libataires aussi.<\/p>\n<h4>Choisir d\u2019\u00eatre maman ou papa solo<\/h4>\n<p>Les premiers parents ayant \u00e9lev\u00e9 seuls leurs enfants l\u2019ont souvent fait par obligation, suite \u00e0 une situation compliqu\u00e9e. Divorce, violence conjugale, d\u00e9c\u00e8s ou abandon du 2\u00e8me parent&#8230; L\u2019ind\u00e9pendance des femmes, acquise progressivement depuis un si\u00e8cle les a amen\u00e9es \u00e0 travailler beaucoup et \u00e0 privil\u00e9gier leur carri\u00e8re \u00e0 leur vie de couple. Elles d\u00e9cident alors de devenir mamans solos. Dans le m\u00eame temps, le taux de divorces a explos\u00e9 et de plus en plus de p\u00e8res r\u00e9clament et obtiennent la garde principale de leur enfant.<\/p>\n<h4>Qui sont les nouveaux parents c\u00e9libataires ?<\/h4>\n<p>Les femmes actives qui, approchant la quarantaine et voyant leur fertilit\u00e9 diminuer sans <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/top-5-des-qualites-du-coparent-ideal\/\">trouver le p\u00e8re id\u00e9al<\/a>, se lancent dans le projet de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/avoir-un-enfant-toute-seule\/\">devenir maman, seule<\/a>. C\u2019est aussi le cas de certains hommes, m\u00eame si le cas est moins fr\u00e9quent jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce jour. Les femmes sont plus nombreuses \u00e0 ressentir ce \u00ab mal d\u2019enfant \u00bb et \u00e0 franchir le cap en voyant l\u2019horloge biologique tourner inexorablement.<br \/>\nMais de plus en plus de femmes jeunes d\u00e9cident de fonder leur famille sans \u00eatre en couple : elles ont compris que la vie de couple n\u2019\u00e9tait pas \u00e9panouissante pour elles et qu\u2019elles seraient de meilleures mamans en \u00e9tant seules.<br \/>\nIl existe aussi les parents solos homosexuels qui ne trouvent pas de partenaires pr\u00eats \u00e0 \u00e9lever un enfant dans un sch\u00e9ma de famille homoparentale.<\/p>\n<h4>Comment devenir parent c\u00e9libataire ?<\/h4>\n<p>Lorsqu\u2019on fait le choix d\u2019\u00e9lever seul un enfant, il faut trouver une solution pour devenir parent, car biologiquement, cela se fait \u00e0 2 ! Pour les hommes comme pour les femmes, plusieurs solutions existent :<br \/>\n&#8211; la coparentalit\u00e9<br \/>\n&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/inseminations-artificielles-et-artisanales\/\">l\u2019ins\u00e9mination artisanale<\/a><br \/>\n&#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/15\/gpa-que-dit-la-loi-concernant-les-meres-porteuses\/\">la Gestation Pour Autrui (GPA)<\/a><br \/>\n&#8211; l\u2019adoption, qui est quasiment sans espoir pour les personnes c\u00e9libataires, m\u00eame si elle est autoris\u00e9e<\/p>\n<h4>La coparentalit\u00e9<\/h4>\n<p>La coparentalit\u00e9, c\u2019est \u00eatre parent avec un autre parent, sans vivre ensemble. Il y donc :7<br \/>\n&#8211; soit 2 coparents qui choisissent soit d\u2019\u00e9lever l\u2019enfant selon un principe de garder altern\u00e9e ou de garder principale<br \/>\n&#8211; soit 1 parent qui g\u00e8re tout ,seul<br \/>\nLes coparents peuvent d\u00e9cider de faire l\u2019enfant ensemble, naturellement ou par ins\u00e9mination artisanale. Cela permet de choisir le deuxi\u00e8me parent. Les coparents se rencontrent par le biais d\u2019internet en d\u00e9posant des annonces et en chattant, comme sur un site de rencontres lambda.<br \/>\nLes coparents peuvent aussi choisir de donner naissance \u00e0 l\u2019enfant en faisant appel \u00e0 une tierce personne, dans le cas de probl\u00e8mes de fertilit\u00e9. Ils peuvent proc\u00e9der naturellement ou opter pour l\u2019ins\u00e9mination artisanale, la GPA.<\/p>\n<h4>L\u2019ins\u00e9mination artisanale\u00e9<\/h4>\n<p>L\u2019ins\u00e9mination artisanale est une pratique fr\u00e9quente chez les futurs coparents pour de multiples raisons. D\u2019abord parce que l\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2023\/08\/03\/insemination-femme-seule-comment-faire-un-enfant-en-etant-celibataire\/\">ins\u00e9mination artificielle<\/a> n\u2019est pas autoris\u00e9e aux personnes c\u00e9libataires, mais aussi parce que l\u2019ins\u00e9mination artisanale permet de choisir l\u2019autre parent, d\u2019\u00e9tablir un lien avec lui et de vivre le moment pleinement. Autre avantage non n\u00e9gligeable : cela ne co\u00fbte rien.<\/p>\n<h4>La GPA<\/h4>\n<p>Encore interdite en France, la GPA est autoris\u00e9e dans d\u2019autres pays europ\u00e9ens qui voient r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement des Fran\u00e7ais franchir la fronti\u00e8re ou m\u00eame traverser l\u2019Atlantique pour trouver une m\u00e8re porteuse. Les hommes en mal d\u2019enfants ou les couples lesbiens peuvent choisir cette option, \u00e0 condition d\u2019avoir de belles \u00e9conomies. Le co\u00fbt de cette d\u00e9marche se compte en dizaines de milliers d\u2019\u20ac !<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Les m\u00e9dias ont toujours associ\u00e9 la famille monoparentale \u00e0 une m\u00e8re c\u00e9libataire, divorc\u00e9e ou abandonn\u00e9e par le p\u00e8re, voire m\u00eame<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4,10],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.12 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Elever un enfant seul : un choix - Blog CoparentaLys<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/elever-un-enfant-seul-un-choix\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"fr_FR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Elever un enfant seul : un choix - 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