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A partir de quel \u00e2ge mettre en place une garde altern\u00e9e ?<\/span><\/h1>\n

Pr\u00e9conis\u00e9e par une loi de mars 2002, la garde altern\u00e9e est le mode privil\u00e9gi\u00e9 par les juges lors des s\u00e9parations \u00e0 l\u2019amiable. On parle de garde altern\u00e9e (ou de garde partag\u00e9e) quand l\u2019enfant passe une semaine chez sa m\u00e8re puis une semaine chez son p\u00e8re. Afin de veiller au bien-\u00eatre des plus jeunes, quelques pr\u00e9cautions sont \u00e0 appliquer.<\/p>\n

L\u2019enfant au centre de toutes les pr\u00e9occupations<\/span><\/h2>\n

Selon l\u2019\u00e2ge de l\u2019enfant, sa personnalit\u00e9 ou encore les relations entretenues par les parents, il est important de pouvoir apporter des solutions adapt\u00e9es \u00e0 chaque situation. Pour les enfants de moins de 3 ans, il est conseill\u00e9 de laisser l\u2019enfant chez l\u2019un des deux parents.<\/p>\n

Souvent la m\u00e8re qui a besoin d\u2019allaiter son nouveau-n\u00e9 et dont la pr\u00e9sence est primordiale pour lui donner le sein. Dans ce cas, pour la construction de l\u2019enfant, il est n\u00e9cessaire que le p\u00e8re puisse s\u2019organiser afin de venir r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement lui rendre visite.<\/p>\n

Quand l\u2019enfant atteint 3 ans, il est possible d\u2019envisager une garde partag\u00e9e de mani\u00e8re progressive. En alternant 2\/3 jours chez le p\u00e8re puis 2\/3 jours chez la m\u00e8re, ce sera plus \u00e9vident pour les enfants de se construire des rep\u00e8res et de s\u2019habituer \u00e0 leurs nouvelles conditions de vie.<\/p>\n

Les enfants en bas-\u00e2ge n\u2019ont pas la m\u00eame perception du temps qui passe que celle ressentie par les adultes. Une semaine peut sembler un d\u00e9lai tr\u00e8s long pour les plus jeunes qui ont besoin de stabilit\u00e9.<\/p>\n

La place du p\u00e8re<\/span><\/h2>\n

Avant la loi de mars 2002, les m\u00e8res recevaient dans la grande majorit\u00e9 des cas la garde de leurs enfants. Devant le mal-\u00eatre croissant des p\u00e8res s\u00e9par\u00e9s de leurs enfants, les choses sont aujourd\u2019hui moins syst\u00e9matiques et la garde altern\u00e9e permet au p\u00e8re de retrouver leur v\u00e9ritable place aupr\u00e8s de leurs enfants.<\/p>\n

Depuis les ann\u00e9es 80, la figure paternelle n\u2019est plus simplement synonyme d\u2019autorit\u00e9. Les p\u00e8res d\u2019aujourd\u2019hui sont pour la majorit\u00e9 d\u2019entre eux enclins \u00e0 partager avec leur prog\u00e9niture des moments de complicit\u00e9 et de tendresse.<\/p>\n

Il est aujourd\u2019hui admis que les hommes sont autant capables que les femmes de s\u2019occuper de leurs enfants et que la m\u00e8re n\u2019est pas la seule \u00e0 occuper une place de choix dans la construction et le d\u00e9veloppement de la personnalit\u00e9 de ses enfants.<\/p>\n

Les hommes \u00e9galement prennent davantage conscience que leurs enfants participent \u00e0 la construction de leur bonheur et de leur \u00e9panouissement.<\/p>\n

Savoir faire taire les querelles<\/span><\/h2>\n

Pour que votre enfant s\u2019adapte le mieux possible \u00e0 une garde altern\u00e9e, il est imp\u00e9ratif pour les parents de devoir faire preuve de respect mutuel. Une s\u00e9paration est souvent difficile, m\u00eame quand elle se passe d\u2019un commun accord.<\/p>\n

Afin d\u2019aider les plus jeunes \u00e0 passer ce cap, les parents doivent mettre de c\u00f4t\u00e9 leurs diff\u00e9rends pour veiller au bien-\u00eatre de leurs ch\u00e9rubins. Permettant de continuer \u00e0 cr\u00e9er le lien n\u00e9cessaire \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9panouissement, la garde altern\u00e9e est id\u00e9al pour que les enfants continuent \u00e0 entretenir des relations saines et \u00e9quilibr\u00e9es avec leurs deux parents.<\/p>\n

L\u2019essentiel pour ces derniers est de savoir se rendre disponible quand le besoin se fait sentir, en mettant de c\u00f4t\u00e9s les ranc\u0153urs \u00e9prouv\u00e9es \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9gard de leur ancien conjoint.<\/p>\n

Officiellement, aucun texte de loi ne r\u00e9git l\u2019\u00e2ge \u00e0 laquelle des enfants peuvent \u00eatre soumis \u00e0 une garde altern\u00e9e. Les premiers mois de vie devant faire l\u2019objet d\u2019une attention et d\u2019une stabilit\u00e9 n\u00e9cessaire au bon \u00e9panouissement du nouveau-n\u00e9, il est pr\u00e9f\u00e9rable d\u2019\u00e9viter les longues p\u00e9riodes d\u2019\u00e9loignement avec un des parents. A partir de 3 ans, un enfant a suffisamment grandi pour comprendre les choses et s\u2019habituera plus facilement \u00e0 ce mode de garde de plus en plus r\u00e9pandu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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