{"id":66,"date":"2018-11-08T13:20:36","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T12:20:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/?p=66"},"modified":"2018-11-08T13:20:36","modified_gmt":"2018-11-08T12:20:36","slug":"couple-gay-souhaite-avoir-un-enfant-et-devenir-homo-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coparentalys.com\/blog\/2018\/11\/08\/couple-gay-souhaite-avoir-un-enfant-et-devenir-homo-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"Couple Gay souhaite avoir un enfant et devenir homo-parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nous sommes un <strong>couple gay<\/strong>, de 28 et 32 ans vivant ensemble depuis 8 ans maintenant. Nous sommes bien dans notre union et bien \u00e9quilibr\u00e9s, mais nous avions un grand <strong>d\u00e9sir de devenir parents<\/strong>. Ce besoin s&rsquo;est fait sentir depuis 2 \u00e0 3 ans maintenant et aussi un peu sous la pression de nos familles et devant leur d\u00e9sarroi de ne pas esp\u00e9rer de descendance pour leurs enfants.<\/p>\n<p>Nous nous sommes mis en qu\u00eate de trouver dans notre entourage, nos amies et diff\u00e9rentes connaissances, une jeune femme qui accepterait de <strong>devenir la m\u00e8re de notre enfant<\/strong>. Pas simple \u00e0 trouver et pour expliquer nos points de vues, car nous consid\u00e9rions que notre enfant ne pouvait pas se passer de la pr\u00e9sence de sa maman pendant longtemps et nous devions nous contenter du r\u00f4le de p\u00e8res nourriciers et \u00e9ducatifs mais aussi donner \u00e0 cet enfant tout l&rsquo;amour que nous avions \u00e0 partager.<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s plusieurs approches infructueuses, nous avons pens\u00e9 qu&rsquo;il fallait nous faire aider et qu&rsquo;il existait des Sites sp\u00e9cialis\u00e9s qui permettaient de mettre en relation des personnes qui recherchaient le m\u00eame but.<\/p>\n<p>Nous nous sommes inscrits sur plusieurs <strong>Sites de rencontre de coparentalit\u00e9<\/strong>, certains gratuits, d&rsquo;autres payants avec des abonnements plus ou moins cher, mais l&rsquo;argent n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas le probl\u00e8me.<\/p>\n<p>Nous avons d&rsquo;abord mis beaucoup de temps pour cibler nos objectifs et d\u00e9finir le profil de la personne que nous attendions pour <strong>faire notre enfant<\/strong>. Une fois bien clairs dans notre esprit, nous avons constat\u00e9 que beaucoup de jeunes femmes inscrites sur les Sites de rencontre dans <strong>un but de coparentalit\u00e9<\/strong>, ne recherchaient en fait pour la plupart d&rsquo;entre-elles que la possibilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;<strong>avoir un enfant<\/strong>, pour <strong>devenir maman<\/strong>, mais pas forc\u00e9ment conserver le papa ni m\u00eame <strong>partager une coparentalit\u00e9<\/strong>, ce qui nous a beaucoup d\u00e9\u00e7us.<\/p>\n<p>Finalement, apr\u00e8s beaucoup d&rsquo;efforts et de temps pass\u00e9, nous avons enfin trouv\u00e9 une personne qui correspondait \u00e0 nos attentes et qui n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas bloqu\u00e9e par notre <strong>homosexualit\u00e9<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Nous nous sommes rencontr\u00e9s et avons convenu de nous revoir pour <strong>la conception de notre enfant<\/strong>, ce que nous avons fait quelques semaines plus tard. Ces quelques rencontres ont fait naitre une grande amiti\u00e9 entre nous trois et le fervent d\u00e9sir de nous occuper ensemble du partage financier et de l&rsquo;\u00e9ducation de notre enfant, m\u00eame si dans un premier temps, nous acceptions que sa r\u00e9sidence serait celle de sa m\u00e8re..<\/p>\n<p>Une <strong>coparentalit\u00e9 partag\u00e9e<\/strong>, ce que nous souhaitions pouvait \u00eatre envisag\u00e9e. Le Site de coparentalys que nous remercions au passage, nous a permis de trouver la perle rare qui nous comble de joie aujourd&rsquo;hui avec la naissance de Quentin le mois dernier, beau gar\u00e7on aux yeux bleus comme mon compagnon. Nos parents sont ravis ainsi que les parents de Nelly qui a mis au monde notre b\u00e9b\u00e9 pour qui nous avons de grands projets&#8230; faut bien r\u00eaver un peu, en tous les cas, notre r\u00eave est bien devenu une r\u00e9alit\u00e9 et relance toutes nos esp\u00e9rances dans l&rsquo;avenir.<\/p>\n<p>Nous souhaitons \u00e0 toutes les personnes qui sont en <strong>recherche de paternit\u00e9 ou maternit\u00e9<\/strong> d&rsquo;insister dans leur <strong>recherche de coparentalit\u00e9<\/strong> qu&rsquo;elle soit partag\u00e9e ou non si c&rsquo;est leur choix, car pour ce qui nous concerne, nous avons ressenti une immense joie et un lien plus profond de notre union et de notre <strong>relation de coparent<\/strong> avec une jeune femme formidable.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nous sommes un couple gay, de 28 et 32 ans vivant ensemble depuis 8 ans maintenant. 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